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Elderglen’s pride was its nightly hymn. Every evening since the first stone was laid, they gathered in the square and sang the Truthsong, rooted deeply in the faith that bound them together. “We speak what is, we speak what’s real. Our voices joined, the truth we seal.” They sang of the blessings that kept them alive, the brook, the fields, the forests, the rain. Their children learned it at their mother’s knee, and by their father’s bedside stories. Lovers sealed their wedding vows with it, promising to always speak the truth, and the dying confessed it with their last breath. The Truthsong was the very spine of the village.

Then came the Dreamweavers, in silken robes and painted faces. Wanderers, they settled in to Elderglen in small groups, a few at a time. They carried a new melody with them. “The river flows uphill at night, on Eldertide, the dark is bright. The fish give up the sea in flight, and flames freeze cold while ice ignites.” They sang it in the alleys, taught it to the restless youths, insisting it was a new revelation. They slowly injected it in to the consciousness of the village, one child at a time.

Eamon, the mayor, feared quarrelling as this new doctrine rose in prominence. He feared infighting would lead to lost productivity and revenue. He decided on a compromise, a bargain. He carved the new verse into the square’s ancient pillar. “At eve,” he announced “All will sing the Truthsong. Then, we will sing the Dreamweaver’s verse. Both are now law! Refuse to sing, and you will be cast out of the village, no longer welcome in our community.”  

As evening fell, the old villagers lifted their voices to sing the Truthsong, as they had done on every previous evening for a thousand years. When the time came to sing the Dreamweaver’s verse however, they fell silent, arms crossed in in disbelief. How could those who honored truth sing such lies? True to his word, the mayor had no choice but to expel them from the village.

The Dreamweavers sang along to both verses the first night. But by the second night, they found that they were alone and held the only sway. They flatly refused to sing the Truthsong. The mayor, with no old supporters to do his bidding, could not expel them, and was himself expelled by the Dreamweavers, who now insisted on the exclusive singing of their verse.

The village, left with only a fraction of its population, could not sustain a community. It crumbled under low population and production, and was left as a hollow ghost-town after a few short weeks.

Force the honest to mouth a newborn falsehood, and you do not broaden the table, you shrink it until only the liars are left.

Why Compelling Speech is Bad for Business

Imagine this: Your HR department rolls out a new training on workplace harassment. Included in harassment are the obvious romantic/sexual advances that have no place at the office. Included also are various discriminatory behaviors toward races, religions, or sex. The training warns that any of the actions described will result in discipline up to and including termination, as well as potential criminal charges. But, that isn’t the whole list of harassments. Slipped in near the end is a pro-trans section, a little blurb about using the preferred pronouns of people who pretend to be a gender opposite their biology. This section lands like a bomb, implying that if you do not use preferred pronouns, you are a harasser extraordinaire, on par with the gropers and the slingers of racial slurs.   

Now imagine Sarah, a senior project manager with a decade of high-quality service to the company. She’s also a serious, practicing Christian who believes that sex is a divine imprint, an immutable gift of a creating God who ordered the universe in a certain way, on purpose. Her faith, held by more than two billion people globally, and the majority U.S. religion, holds that God created humankind male and female (Genesis 1:27), both in His image, both differently, and both with a rich divine purpose. Gender, she holds, is a gift and a mandate of this all-wise Creator, not a malleable personal choice. When the HR department drops this mandatory training on her head, and requires that she sign off on it, her fingers freeze. To comply is to voice a claim she holds as false, to obey man rather than God. To refuse is to risk her livelihood. Sarah is in a tight spot, and the stakes are high.

This is no hypothetical case. It is the point of collision where corporate inclusivity mandate slams face-first into Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, the federal statute that explicitly protects employees from religious discrimination. Employers, under law, cannot force workers to violate sincerely held beliefs unless the accommodation imposes “undue hardship.” Courts have set that undue hardship clause at a high bar, mere discomfort or extra paperwork does not cut it. To be clear on that statement, the minor inconveniences of the employer’s discomfort, or other employees’ disagreement, does not constitute undue hardship under the law.

The legal ledger is already bleeding red ink. In Merriam v Branson (9^th Cir. 2022), a nurse fired for refusing to use pronouns contrary to her Catholic faith walked away with a $1.2 million judgment. In Kluge v Brownsburg Community Schools (S.D. Ind. 2023), a teacher’s refusal to comply ended with a settlement of more than $200K, plus legal fees. The U.S. Department of Justice has filed amicus briefs in similar cases, warning employers: “Compelled speech on contested moral questions” will result in strict scrutiny.
 
For private companies, the legal exposure is pretty dire. A single charge can cost $15,000 to $50,000 to defend before discovery even begins. Add punitive and compensatory damages in the event that you lose the suit, and you are looking at seven figures. With the reputational fallout of a viral firing, seven may rapidly become eight.   

There is an escape hatch. No one is forcing you to put your company in harm’s way. You do not have to compel agreement with a divisive dogma. You can abstain entirely, focus on doing business, trust your people to behave as adults, and respond to individual issues if they arise. Alternatively, you can request that people keep their beliefs to themselves and address the pronoun demanders by name. However, if you decide to hire people of incompatible worldviews and then mandate agreement with one, you do so at your own risk.
 
Three Reasons Why Compelling Preferred Pronouns Is a Particularly Terrible Business Idea

1. Agreement with transgenderism, or alternatively, lying and pretending to agree with it, is against the world’s largest religion, Christianity. It also directly opposes Islam, Mormonism, Judaism, some traditions of Buddhism, and others. Unless your hiring documentation screams “must be atheist to apply,” and you expect that none of your employees are going to be practicing members of these religions, you are engaged in false hiring practices. You cannot hire a devout Christian, then inform him later that he will need to speak against his faith to retain employment.

Hiring is extremely expensive, and the cost of the hiring process itself can exceed a year’s salary for the position being hired. Additionally, those left after a mass firing are overworked, with an unsustainable environment. Some of them in turn will leave. Can your company afford to lose half of its workforce, give its remaining employees a double load, and pay $60K to $80K per position to replace them with qualified atheists?

2. Transgenderism is almost exclusively a partisan issue. It is a red-blue fault line. Polls (Pew 2023) show that more than 80% of self-identified liberals are in favor of mandatory pronouns, while less than 20% of self-described conservatives agree. Mandating this divisive viewpoint signals one thing: “Leftists only please.” As in the reason above, this is fraudulent recruitment. If your job postings tout “diverse teams” but you demand an ideological purity test after hiring, you are engaging in fraud. Threat of severe personal consequences (loss of livelihood, criminal charges) elevates that fraud to the level of extortion. You must announce that your company only hires liberals, or face the lawsuits that will arise.

3. The U.S. Constitution isn’t optional corporate décor. The First Amendment bars government from compelling speech, with legal precedents such as West Virginia State Board of Education v. Barnette, 1943. Private firms are not immune. When policies coerce ideology, they violate civil rights via 42 U.S.C. 1983, if in any way tied to State operations, and open doors to wrongful termination suits in other cases.

The Bottom Line

It is debatably reasonable for a company to request silence. You can ask that your employees keep their religious beliefs and moral/political opinions to themselves. You can ask them to focus on their work, be kind to all, and retain these differences in their private lives. You can remind them that they are here to provide a good or service to customers, and to take a check home to feed their families. What you cannot do is force verbal agreement with an extremely divisive and polarizing ideology, under the guise of “anti-harassment” policy. Do that, and you are playing the role of Eamon the mayor in the story at the top of this article. You will expel the better part of your workforce, at least those who have a pair. And we are finished with pair-lessness. In turn, you will eventually be expelled yourself as the new ideology grows more aggressive. The company will eventually buckle under, unable to find enough qualified employees, and beset by lawsuits. In the end, if you choose to divide your own house against itself, it will not stand.

Your move, CEO. Will you carve a new verse into the company pillar, or will you let employees keep their consciences, and your balance sheet, intact?

Call to Action

If this article just chilled you with the image of your own workplace turning into a ghost town… hiring good people, then forcing them to sing lies until only the liars remain…. then you know exactly whose HR email this needs to crash into.

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Forward it to the colleague whispering doubts about the next “inclusivity training,” the manager dreading the pronoun policy fallout, or drop it in that LinkedIn thread pretending “diversity” doesn’t mean ideological lockstep. A share today could be the whisper that keeps one honest voice from being expelled tomorrow. YOU are the step between me and them. Share the article. — D.S. Cook

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