“Every instrument, tool, vessel, if it does that for which it has been made, is well. Does the sun undertake to do the work of the rain? And how is it with respect to each of the stars? Are they not different and yet they work together to the same end?”
These words from Marcus Aurelius in Book 6 of The Meditations offer a truth so simple it’s often overlooked amid life’s chaos. When I first considered its applications, I imagined a sprawling essay with tendrils reaching into every corner of existence; personal relationships, parenting, and more. But that would overwhelm rather than enlighten. Instead, I’ll focus on one arena: the workplace. We spend most of our lives there, and I believe Stoic wisdom, like that of Aurelius, can root itself in our professions to cultivate happier, healthier lives. Its power lies in its simplicity… practical, common-sense ideas that resonate as true and good.
Tools and Vessels: A Stoic Metaphor
Aurelius uses tools and vessels to draw a vivid contrast: a hammer versus a nail, a cup versus a plate. Try fastening planks by driving a hammer through them. Try striking that hammer with a nail. Try drinking juice from a plate or eating steak from a cup. Each tool thrives in its intended purpose. When it doesn’t, chaos reigns. No builder favors saws alone; no chef cooks with only spoons. As the philosopher Earnest P. Warrell quipped, “The right tool for the right job.”
Aurelius extends this to people. A mother excels at comforting a crying boy; a father at toughening him. Both are vital, equal in necessity and goodness, but it would be great folly to construe equality with interchangeability. My brother builds houses; I manage accounts. Swapping roles would be disastrous. I’d erect a crooked shelf after a year’s effort, while he’d flounder over a spreadsheet. Better we hone our crafts and trade services, thriving in our unique purposes.
Stoicism in the Workplace: Hammers and Nails
This metaphor illuminates a flaw in modern workplaces, especially in “the corporate world”, a term now tinged with cynicism from years of flawed human behavior. Many see its negatives as inevitable, like wind or rain, to be endured rather than challenged. I reject that. If individuals can confront their flaws and improve, so can organizations. To accept personal shortcomings as unchangeable is no different from the religious concept of unrepentance; in companies, it’s corporate unrepentance.
Consider a team: one leader (the hammer) and four workers (the nails). The leader sets direction with high-level vision; the workers execute with diligence. Both are essential, yet not equal in function or pay. This is ordered and necessary, so what’s the failure? It lies in the inappropriate valuation of nails. Companies often undervalue nails, hiring and reviewing them as potential hammers. Workers are prodded to bridge the gap to leadership, evaluated and reviewed on the basis of the difference between their skillset and that of the hammer. They are criticized if their ascension to hammerhood is not occurring rapidly enough, or not at all. But if all nails become hammers, chaos erupts; competing visions fracture the team, or they leave for roles matching their new skills, forcing the cycle to restart. This results in turnover every couple of years, as the newly ascended hammer leaves to get paid as a hammer, and as those who are content to be nails get fed up with the pushing.
The Forgotten Value of Followership
Leadership is lionized; books, seminars, and interviews obsess over it. Where’s the praise for followership? Companies need diligent, content nails far more than hammers, yet they rarely seek them. Imagine interview questions like: “How well do you follow a leader’s direction with a smile?” or “Are you happy being staff?” Firms that value nails… those who work hard, go home fulfilled, and don’t crave the ladder… would thrive. Instead, they chase turnover and inefficiency.
A Stoic Answer to “Where Do You See Yourself in 5 Years?”
In a recent interview, I faced the inevitable: “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” The expected answer drips with ambition: “I aim to be a controller, climbing from staff to management with stellar performance.” But companies need staff accountants, not a surplus of controllers. They want nails, yet fish for hammers.
I chose honesty: “I’m a simple guy, a family man. I work 50 hours now and see managers working 70. I’d rather excel as a staff accountant, do my job well, and go home to my kids. Management? Maybe if offered, but not my goal. I’d have to evaluate that at the time. But I can say that I will always prioritize fatherhood over career.” I braced for the rejection letter. Instead, they offered the top salary in the staff range. They saw a contented nail and valued it… a rare find. They showed rare wisdom in the corporate world.
Conclusion: Living Stoically as Tools
Aurelius reminds us to embrace our purpose. In work, Stoicism teaches us to be the tool we are—hammer or nail—and find virtue in doing it well.
Beyond the Workplace: A Stoic Lens
The workplace is just one proving ground for Aurelius’s wisdom. A mother comforting her child, a friend steadying another through grief, a student mastering focus… each thrives by embracing their role, not chasing another’s. Stoicism’s beauty is its flexibility: the same principle that rights a corporate team can guide how we parent, love, or learn. Hammers and nails aren’t just at work. They’re in life’s every corner, asking us to wield our purpose with virtue.
“Every instrument, tool, vessel, if it does that for which it has been made, is well.”
Call to Action
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